Top 5 Mistakes People Make When Filing Their Own Divorce Paperwork; Best Practices
- Adrienne Bonilla
- Dec 7, 2025
- 3 min read

Filing for divorce in Florida doesn’t always require hiring an attorney — especially if it’s uncontested. But many people run into major delays, court rejections, or unexpected costs simply because the paperwork isn’t completed correctly. Small errors can turn a simple divorce into a stressful headache. Here's some best practices.
Here are the top five mistakes we see every day when individuals try to file their own divorce paperwork.
1. Using the Wrong Forms
Florida family law is very form-driven, and there are different packets for different types of cases, including:
Divorce with children
Divorce without children
Divorce with property
Simplified dissolution
Contested divorce
Most people download whatever they find first online — but using the wrong packet means your case will get rejected or delayed. Clerks cannot tell you which forms you need, and every county may have its own local requirements.
Tip: Always verify your form number (12.901, 12.902, etc.) and make sure you’re using the most recent version.
2. Forgetting Mandatory Disclosure (Rule 12.285)
Many clients think they can just fill out a petition and be done. In Florida, both parties must exchange financial information, including:
Income
Bank statements
Debt
Retirement accounts
Property
Failing to serve mandatory disclosure can cause motions to compel, sanctions, or hearings you never expected.
Tip: Know your deadlines — disclosure is typically due within 45 days of service.
3. Incorrect Notary and Signature Sections
One of the most common reasons paperwork is rejected is simply missing or incorrect notarization. Mistakes include:
Signing before you’re in front of a notary
Forgetting identification
Leaving notary blocks blank
Using white-out on legal forms (not allowed!)
Missing initials on required pages
A court clerk cannot notarize most family forms, and many documents require two signatures — one for the preparer and one for the filer.
Tip: Read every signature page carefully, and always sign in blue or black ink with a licensed Florida notary.
4. Incorrect Filing Location or Service of Process
Filing in the wrong county or failing to serve correctly can stop your case before it even starts. Common errors include:
Filing where you live instead of where the marriage is legally located
Using regular mail instead of certified service
Not using a process server when required
Forgetting to file a Certificate of Service
If the respondent isn’t properly served, the judge cannot move the case forward — period.
Tip: Always include your Notice of Related Cases (Form 12.900(h)) and know your service options.
5. Missing or Incorrect Parenting Plan (When Minor Children Are Involved)
If you have children together, you must file:
A Parenting Plan
Child support guideline worksheet
UCCJEA affidavit
Many parents forget to include details like:
Holiday rotations
Transportation responsibilities
School decisions
Timesharing specifics
Child support amounts
Courts will not approve vague plans — judges want structure to avoid future disputes.
Tip: Be very detailed and realistic, and confirm your plan follows your county’s standard guidelines.
How Marion County Legal Docs Can Help
You don’t need to spend thousands on an attorney to avoid these mistakes. A professional legal document preparer makes sure:
✔ You have the correct forms
✔ Everything is filled out clearly and correctly
✔ All signatures and notary requirements are met
✔ Deadlines are tracked
✔ Required attachments and exhibits are included
✔ You understand the process from start to finish
We complete divorce packets every single week for Florida clients just like you.
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We make sure your divorce paperwork is handled right the first time so you can move forward with confidence and peace of mind.
Disclaimer
We are not attorneys and cannot provide legal advice or represent you in court. We prepare legal documents at your direction.


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